Basic Dating Tips for Shy Guys

It is too important to look for some dating tips for shy guys, isnt it? Yes, of curse, because, shy guys would be in emotional trouble, if they dont have good tips and advice. In terms of getting familiar with each other, the profile is main source of information to know each other, take time to know each other well, before providing any important information that you think that may create any problem if the person is not faithful.Flirting can also be a tip, if you know how to flirt well? Because it is the way to let the people say their nature. Well, flirting is absolutely funny thing if it is performed interestingly. 

You should never use the way of flirting that gives misunderstanding about you. I mean you shouldnt be offensive while flirting. Being alert and truthful is also a tip and it carries lot of weight in terms of dating. Im sure that you would never want to have a doubtful relationship where is impossibility of truth. 

You want the girl who likes you for who you are. You should use your real picture regardless using someone elses photo because truth will come out one day. Always start conversation positively not mentioning your problem. You may share your upset later, when you know each other well. Main thing in dating is to find the real partner whose interests match your interest. 

When you meet someone first time, you should look for the ways of talking as it is the first step. If you would try to copy someones other nature then it may be difficult for you when your partner will know your real face.Above mentioned points would help shy guys a lot in making a girl interested. You should keep the conversation light and natural. Acting to be much smarter and stronger may not be good for those women who are looking for good relationship. First of all start slowly to make her interested in you. But, keep your profiles always interesting ensuring that it is your profile not of other person. These tips would help a shy guy attract girls and you would pass good time with her and you will enjoy your life.

to fall for the wrong guy

ph: weheaerit

This is so hard for me to express, but at the same time it's killing me inside, so here I go...

My boyfriend and I have near a year and a half together, everything was perfect until the worst happened. When I was introduced to his family and we spent time together, all of us, it was cool. Unfortunately, his younger brother, who's also my age, and I became close friends. His brother studies the same major I do, and as time passed I realized that wasn't the only thing we have in common. The three of us used to hang out, a lot, so I couldn't help but noticing how different both of them were. I'm not really sure how this happened but I came to the point where I convinced myself that his brother was kinder than my boyfriend. When I arrived to that point, his brother and I started spending some more alone time together. My boyfriend constantly thought that everything I care about was shallow, but his brother did not think so, we shared the same interests. My boyfriend is afraid of almost everything (and so am I), but his brother is fearless... and that is one of the coolest things about him. I think of him as a bright mind, and my boyfriend doesn't even wanna go to college, he has already dropped once. His brother and I share the passion for the same fruits and vegetables, my boyfriend hates them both.

I realized, that sometimes he wanted to make physical contact, like touching my hands or huggin' me just because, and I tried to look cool when that kind of things happened, but I wasn't cool about it. He always waited for me outside my classroom, so it kinda made my friends wonder. Some of my not so close friends thought he was my boyfriend. It got worse on my birthday, he asked what I wanted him to wear, so I told him. That day, I was kind of upset so my boyfriend tried to comfort me. But when his brother came, with just one look he knew how upset I was. His brother and I ate a piece of cake out of the same plate, and I'm sure I felt he caressed my hand. He also hugged me a lot, and told my boyfriend I was his, of course my boyfriend get a little bit upset, but that was it. There's always and excuse for him (and me) to touch hands, and I'm not sure where this is all going. My relationship with my boyfriend it's just not the same, sometimes I feel we're just two worlds apart. His brother has never had a girlfriend, of friend with benefits or anything in his life, it kinda makes him more interesting. One time he told me that we should have met before, and I started wondering. Staring at him, listening to him is beyond real. I really don't know what to do, maybe I'm just exaggerating things, but all I know is how I wanted to stop time at the very same moment he's hugging me or touching my hands. I'm not a bad person I just happened to fall for the wrong guy.

If anyone has and advice for me please, let me know, cuz its one of the worst feelings.